I share an apartment with 2 roommates, though I spend most of my time now at my boyfriend's apartment, 3 blocks away as a result of what has been going on. My father and another girl's father are the guarantors on the lease. From the beginning, this girl in particular was causing me headaches-- a $9 dispute over the rent, she didn't always pay on time, she gave her mom a key to come and go as she pleases, her mom would rearrange our living room....just annoying stuff. All settled, for the most part, fine. We all talked about it, and I can handle it all.
In November, I went away for Thanksgiving, and left the mail key in the apartment as a courtesy to my roommates. This girl has kept the key, and refused to make me a copy. As a result of her having it, she would take my mail, my magazines, my bills, etc. She went on 2 separate vacations where she took the key with her, and I missed a credit card payment because of it!! The building wouldn't make me a key (they said that was the only one), so I asked her to. She ignored me the first 3 times I asked over the course of several months.
2 weeks ago, I was home with my family, and came into the city one day for a job interview. I went to my apartment to pick up some stuff, found my mail and my magazines in her room, yet again, and left her a note about the key. I got 2 separate messages on my voicemail about how dirty the apartment was, how I better clean it or she'll call my parents (ooooh), how she won't pick up after me, threatening me about going into her room, etc. etc....Never mind that any mess in our apartment is as much hers as it is mine as it is the 3rd girl's.
I then left her a message saying essentially that--that living with people is about cleaning up other people's stuff, and that I've cleaned up her stuff and not liked it, and she needed to step up and do the same. I mentioned the mail key one last time, and explained that if I wasn't constantly finding my stuff in her room, I wouldn't have to go into it.
What I have now on my voicemail and what has happened since then are really frightening me. She left me a message F this and F* that, F* me and my parents and my s**tty little boyfriend. She threw out nearly everything of mine that was in our kitchen, including food, tupperware, bowls and utensils. She took everything else of mine and has put it out on the counters as though to suggest it has no place in our kitchen. I have removed anything that was left, including my TV that was in the living room, and put it in my room.
I'm really at the point where I'm not comfortable living there, and me being at my boyfriend's all the time will get to the point where it takes a toll on our relationship. I cannot get out of the lease without legal action, especially because my father is a co-guarantor with hers and even if I leave, he is half responsible for the rent being paid. I don't think I have any real legal complaint beside the mail thing, which I resolved by essentially forcing my super to make me a key. I'm not allowed by law to put a lock on my room, and I am afraid for myself and especially for my property, because I don't know what she will do next. However, since I chose her, I'm almost certain that by law I am stuck with her. I don't want to actually have her arrested, since I know for sure that her parents will sue me, and I'm definitely not prepared to handle that. We still have another 4 months left on the 1-year lease.
Is there any way to solve this?