What are my rights? Can anyone offer up some helpful resources other than tenant.net?
ever since i told my roommate (who is on the lease--i'm not--and is holding my security deposit and this month's rent) that i was moving out over a month ago, he has made my life a living hell. he has retaliated by making up unreasonable and downright unfair rules that he has told me i must abide by lest he throw me out any time he wishes and keep the rest of my deposit. some of these new rules go directly against what we had mutually decided on when i moved in. one new rule states that i may not have visitors over past 11pm unless i clear it with him first, which i feel is grossly unfair and controlling. additionally, he has taken to picking fights w/ me every day about extremely petty issues, as well as exhibit hurtful passive-aggressive behavior (throwing my food on the kitchen floor, putting the hair from the shower drain in my toiletries, etc.) and he threatens that he'll keep my deposit if i don't scamper away w/ my tail between my legs.
we also made a verbal contract that i would move out at the end of the month, which he keeps threatening to break and vows to "throw me out" sooner. i wouldn't mind moving out sooner, but i would require that he forfeit the rest of my month's rent to me.
we also have written, on a piece of paper when i moved in, a receipt of my deposit money and that the money would be returned to me if there is no damage in the apartment.
questions:
can he throw me out whenever he likes? and if so, is he required to give up the rest of my rent? if i move out early on the grounds of him harrassing me, is there any chance i could legally win the rest of my rent back, as well as ensure i get my deposit back?
can he keep the deposit for any other reason besides damage to the apartment (which i have not done)?
where can i go to find legal help on this?
thank you SO much for your help and/or empathy.
walking on,
pins&needles